Should You Wash Your Eggs Before Cooking

Her face fell, the cheerful warmth in the kitchen dimming in an instant. The butter crackled in the pan, the smell of toast lingered in the air, but everything suddenly felt heavier.

Later, replaying the moment, Evan realized the comment wasn’t really about eggs at all. It was about the small habits we inherit without noticing—the rituals that feel like truth simply because they’re familiar. He hadn’t meant to criticize her, but he suddenly understood how easily childhood routines can show up as unreasonable expectations.

Meanwhile, Mira sat at the dining table, turning her fork between her fingers. She wasn’t upset about the eggs themselves; she was hurt by the comparison to Evan’s mother.

She wanted to create their own rhythm, their own home—not cook in the shadow of someone else’s rules. Growing up, her family cooked with ease and instinct, focusing on flavor, togetherness, and whatever made sense in the moment.

So when Evan corrected her, it felt like he dismissed the care she’d put into the meal. She had woken early to surprise him because he’d had such a stressful week.

And instead of gratitude, she got a comment that sounded like criticism.


Later that day, once the tension had softened into quiet reflection, Evan approached her with a sincerity she recognized immediately.

He explained that rinsing eggs wasn’t a universal truth—just something he associated with comfort and safety because it was what he’d seen his mother do. He hadn’t realized how quickly the words came out, or how easily they could be heard as judgment instead of curiosity.

Mira listened, her expression slowly shifting from guarded to thoughtful. She shared that her frustration came from wanting her effort to matter, not to be compared or corrected.

As they talked, they uncovered the truth neither had seen in the moment: the issue wasn’t eggs. It was how unexamined habits from the past can spill into the present—and into relationships—if no one pauses to notice them.