Each person maintains their private space, but shares closeness, support, and social life with friends or like-minded individuals. This reduces isolation, stimulates mental activity, and creates a genuine support network, free from hierarchies and forced roles.
Living near those who share similar memories, rhythms, and experiences allows one to age in companionship, without sacrificing freedom. It’s not about living crammed together, but rather integrated, with doors that open by choice, not obligation.
The environment matters more than the number of people.
A common mistake is believing that a house full of family members guarantees well-being. The reality is different: the quality of the environment is more important than the number of people living there. A safe, accessible, functional, and stimulating home protects autonomy and prevents accidents, dependency, and sadness.
Dangerous staircases, poorly adapted bathrooms, or impractical spaces can be more limiting than loneliness. Designing the right environment is a long-term health strategy.
Tips and recommendations
Always prioritize your autonomy as long as your health allows.
If you need help, hire it in your own home before giving up your space.
Consider alternatives such as smaller or adapted housing.
Talk to your children openly and honestly, not from a place of guilt or fear.
